The Complete Guide to Loving and Understanding a Scorpio

Gemini? Aquarius? Leo? Aries? Here you can find out if you have any chance of a relationship with a Scorpio, and also receive some practical tips on how to win their heart (Hint: it's not difficult, but you have to work for it).

Have you ever wondered what makes a Scorpio...well, a Scorpio? Here’s your opportunity to get to know this fascinating zodiac sign more deeply - their vulnerabilities, weaknesses and preferences.

This is one of the most complex, mysterious and private zodiac signs. However, once you get to know them, you’ll realize that instead of being unpleasant and bad, they’re actually very loyal and empathetic.


When we talk about compatibility between zodiac signs, relationships with Scorpio are usually challenging at first. Here’s the thing: they demand a lot from their partner, but also expect to keep their freedom.

They can receive some harmony in a relationship when they find someone who is very similar to them - intellectually and personally, and also in terms of style. However, before learning about the compatibility of Scorpios with other signs, we should first focus on them.

Horoscope dates: October 23 - November 21

Symbol: Scorpion

Element: Water

Birthstone: Topaz

Ruling planet: Mars, Pluto

Color: Black 

Day: Tuesday

Power: Focus

Weakness: Obsession

Now that we’ve gotten to know the basics, including some unfamiliar features, here are a few more components of the Scorpio’s personality that’ll allow you to better understand if you have a chance with her or him.

Which zodiac signs are most appropriate to be in a relationship with a Scorpio?

This is a really challenging question because Scorpios don't get along with anyone easily. They are very specific about choosing their friends, but there are some zodiac signs that they usually like more than others. If you are lucky enough to be among those zodiac signs - you have the advantage.

Cancer (June 21-July 22)

Scorpio and Cancer understand each other mentally, physically and spiritually more than any other sign. Besides that, their values ​​in life are very similar.

Emotionally, you have an excellent understanding of each other. The two of you are also very intellectually developed, which allows you to communicate and to trust each other easily, something that is a bit difficult to develop with someone else.

Aries (March 21 - April 19)

Inside of both of you there is a deep darkness and therefore you are a good match. Not only can you get along very well, you really need each other.

When Aries and Scorpio unite their energies and attitudes, they become a huge and unstoppable force. However, if you, as a couple, don’t know how to overcome small obstacles, the shared energy will dissipate very quickly.

Taurus (April 20 - May 20)

Taurus is one of the few zodiac signs that the Scorpio is willing to trust. Taureans are open and free when they are near a Scorpio, which allows the Scorpios to get to know them more in-depth.

Even if they have nothing in common, these two zodiac signs can be very good friends and assist one another. Another thing in common you share is your perception of life and the perception of those around you.

Virgo (September 23 - October 22)

Virgo is very suitable for Scorpio both physically and sexually, but when it comes to their relationship, it just won’t work. They are very similar and very different at the same time and eventually their relationship, if it even began, can end in an explosion. It seems that they are very good at being friends, but nothing beyond that.

Zodiac signs who are compatible with Scorpios are minimal to simply nonexistent.

There’s simply way around this. No matter what you try, it won't work. You have been warned.

Gemini (May 21 - June 20)

There’s no way that there’s even the slightest chance of a match here. There are almost no relationships between these two signs, simply because they are very similar, very stubborn, and the result is one big mess, not a relationship.

The very fact that these two zodiac signs have common goals in life is what damages the potential relationship the most. Each of them won’t be afraid to walk all over the other in order to achieve what they both want.

Leo (July 23 - August 22)

Leos and Scorpios cannot have a healthy relationship, as they are very different. Each has very different personalities and aspirations and the result of this is chaos.

Both of them are very determined and motivated to succeed, but that doesn't mean they can have a relationship with each other.

Aquarius (January 20-February 18)

Nothing will work, don't even try, because you’ll simply hate every moment, and also because you have nothing in common. Each of you expresses your feelings differently, and most relationships, if they begin at all, will end up with one of the parties being hurt.

Scorpios have more intense feelings for others and as soon as Aquarius doesn't cooperate, hearts break.

Things the Scorpio needs in a relationship

When it comes to relationships, the Scorpios need someone to stay with them long-term. They don't want to play games, but obviously they need someone with a compatible personality, but not too compatible, because too much imagination isn't really good either.

The Scorpios need someone who can challenge them and offer them adventure day after day. One of the things they hate most is getting bored and when they are bored with a relationship, it can end badly.

Scorpios are considered the most sensual of the signs in the horoscope, and they are not ashamed to show it. Everything they do is driven by love. Aside from that, they are very invested in relationships and therefore one shouldn’t worry about them finding someone else on the side.

Where should the Scorpios look for love and relationships?

The problem with the Scorpios is their constant need for love and attention, and so they often search in the wrong places. The best thing for them is to just let love come to them and to stop looking for it.

Scorpios often get hurt because they put all their efforts into a relationship that wasn't worth it from the beginning. But if they just look really hard, the person who is the best fit for them may already be in their life and they haven't even noticed it.

The places where Scorpios often gather to seek love are bars and clubs. They are looking for long-term relationships. They just have to stop searching and let everything happen naturally.

The best time for the Scorpio to seek love is when they are feeling really good about themselves, because sometimes, when they are scared, they can become desperate. Searching for love in such a situation can end in a relationship from hell and serious injury to themselves.

Scorpios only want serious relationships, but they’ll never admit it. They are just not interested in declaring as such, on the one hand, but they don’t want to get hurt either.

To sum it up, the Scorpios need to look for a partner only when they really feel ready for it.

How does Scorpio wreck their relationships?

Scorpios have a mysteriousness that no one can resist. No one can read them. When one encounters a Scorpio, one is simply drawn to them, literally. Scorpios like adventure and, among other things, they tend to play with the feelings of others.

Scorpios seem to simply bewitch their suitors and often the ruining of a relationship happens because of their tendency to maintain their privacy. They shut the door and don't let others in easily. This is part of their intrigue, but it also often ruins the chance of a good relationship.

How do you keep a Scorpio partner happy?

It turns out it's not hard to make a Scorpio happy in a relationship. They are always happy to talk about the things they love – TV series, books and movies.

If you listen to them when they talk about it - there is nothing that’ll be more fun for them. Even more so, if the partner wants to watch a Scorpio's favorite movie together or borrow a book that they read, it will show the Scorpio that that person wants to be involved with and attentive to them.

What causes a Scorpio to reject someone?

Without a doubt - distrust. Scorpios trust their partners very much. A relationship without mutual trust just doesn't exist for them. If they are unable to trust their partner, they will cut off all contact.

How do you make a Scorpio fall in love with you?

Seeing a Scorpio in love is one of the most amazing things; they love when someone pays attention to them, but they are not egocentric. They just like to know that someone is thinking about them. Also, they always love when someone likes the same things as them.


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